Strong Doesn’t Stay Silent: Men’s Mental Health Deserves a Voice

In a culture that too often praises toughness over truth, many men are left feeling like they have to carry their stress in silence. But staying quiet doesn’t make you stronger. In fact, the greatest strength lies in speaking up—and choosing to care for yourself in ways that support both mind and body.

June is Men’s Health & Mental Health Awareness Month, and it’s a time to dismantle outdated ideas about masculinity. Let’s normalize vulnerability. Let’s normalize self-care. Let’s normalize men feeling good in their bodies and minds.

The Mental Load Many Men Carry

Whether it’s the pressure to provide, succeed, or suppress emotions, many men are quietly navigating:

  • Chronic stress

  • Sleep issues

  • Low energy or motivation

  • Anxiety and emotional burnout

And yet, only a small percentage seek help. The good news? Help doesn’t always mean sitting in an office or making huge life changes. It can begin with movement, breath, stillness, and a willingness to check in with yourself.

How Yoga Supports Men’s Mental Health

Yoga might seem like it’s all about flexibility—but the true power of yoga is in building resilience from the inside out.

  • Breathwork helps lower stress and improve emotional regulation

  • Mindful movement trains focus, strengthens the body, and quiets mental chatter

  • Yoga nidra and meditation support better sleep and calm the nervous system

  • Community classes offer connection without pressure or performance

At Soul Society, we offer beginner-friendly and recovery-based classes that meet you exactly where you are. Our environment is welcoming, our teachers are trained to support all levels, and you don’t have to know a thing about yoga to get started.

Heat, Cold, and the Power of Recovery

Sometimes healing comes not just from movement—but from stillness. Our Cold Plunge and Infrared Halosauna Therapy Rooms are powerful tools to support both mental and physical recovery:

Cold Plunge Therapy

  • Triggers a calming parasympathetic response

  • Builds stress tolerance and mental clarity

  • Increases dopamine and reduces inflammation

Infrared Halosauna Therapy

  • Eases muscle tension and supports breath awareness

  • Detoxifies the body while promoting full-body relaxation

  • Creates space for reflection, meditation, or simply silence

Both rooms allow you to play peaceful music or guided meditations, helping create a full sensory experience designed to calm the mind and recharge the body.

Real Stories, Real Relief

Want to know what this looks like in real life? Here’s how some of our male members have used yoga to support their health:

“Yoga gave me the mental clarity I didn’t even know I needed.” – Scott S.

“Since the pandemic started, I have lost over 50 lbs. Yoga is a significant factor. Since I don't want to eat late dinners anymore, I eat before the class; this has contributed to my weight loss.” – Robert B.

“Yoga has gone beyond what I originally hoped for. I started to improve my flexibility and balance, but over time, it’s helped me in ways I didn’t expect—especially off the mat. With regular practice, I’ve noticed I’m thinking more clearly, I feel more relaxed, and I’ve had way less pain in my back and shoulders. That’s been a huge deal, especially when it comes to keeping up with our kids—I can wrestle them around without feeling wrecked afterward.” – Chris J.

“I didn’t know much about yoga when I started. I thought it might help me loosen up and allow me to get a light work out in. It’s so much more than that. In talking with non yogis it’s clear the perception is, yoga is good for stretching. In fact, they say they don’t want to do it because they aren’t very flexible. Ironically that’s the whole point! I often come to class with a lot on my mind. Since heated vinyasa is pretty intense I can’t help but let go of all that and focus mindfulness. When the class is over I’m a totally different person.” – Kieth S

I worked up a pretty good sweat and felt great afterward. As one of the few males, I feel very comfortable and welcomed.” – Phil G.

Tips to Start (and Stick With) a New Wellness Practice

Start small. 1-2 classes a week is enough to create noticeable change.

  1. Try different styles. Gentle Yoga, Yin, or VinYin classes are great entry points.

  2. Book ahead. Having it on your schedule makes you more likely to show up.

  3. Use the tools. Props, wrist supports, and modified poses make yoga work for your body.

  4. Don’t do it alone. Bring a friend or talk to your instructor—connection is part of the healing.

You Deserve This Too: A Reminder for the Men Who Carry So Much

You give so much—to your families, your work, your community. And while that strength is admirable, it’s not a reason to carry everything alone.

To the dads, partners, brothers, and friends who show up every day with quiet grit and determination: we see you. And we want you to know—you deserve to be cared for too.

You don’t have to wait for permission to rest, to breathe, to feel better in your body and mind. You’re allowed to take up space. You’re allowed to put yourself first.

Because real strength isn’t just powering through—it’s knowing when to pause, reflect, and invest in your own wellbeing.

Whether it’s on the mat, in the cold plunge, or sitting quietly in stillness, you matter.

Start today—not because you’re broken, but because you’re worth it.

You deserve to feel strong, steady, and supported—from the inside out.

Julia Collins